Married and Single at the same time?

 

Since I’ve been divorced 3x and not willing to see my 4^th marriage end in a courtroom; I started looking at certain words. One of the words that caught my eyes was Consummation. In a nutshell, it means to finalize, become valid or bring to completion. Some people believe marriage is a contract between two people; and if that is the case, how do you finalize or complete the contract? Well that depends on where you live; for example, in Alaska, Colorado, Delaware, Idaho, Illinois, Michigan, Montana, Ohio, South Carolina, Vermont and Wisconsin,  in order for a marriage to be consummated (Valid), a couple would need to have sexual relations. So in those states a marriage isn’t valid on the grounds of a marriage certificate alone because the certificate does not complete, validate or bring to fruition the union. Only through the conjugal act does the contract become valid. You’re probably wondering, “What’s with all this consummation, contract and marriage talk?

It dawned on me that before I ever got married, I was married! You see, I was having sex (Consummating) with various women, who I didn’t have a marriage certificate with. But remember, it wasn’t the certificate that validated the marriage, it was the sexual relation. One of the reasons my marriages didn’t work was that I had soul ties with previous women I had sex with. So it is possible for you to be single and married at the same time. If this is the case, your soul becomes scattered and you never fill complete.   In order to be able to re-gather your soul and be able to validate a union, soul ties need to be renounced. To stop here would be a disservice so here’s an example of renouncing a soul tie: Jesus I confess my brokenness and the feeling of my soul being fractured. Lord I confess and renounce every relationship and soul tie that was not in agreement with Your Word. It is Your will that my soul prospers so I want to be in Your will. Lord forgive me and make me whole again, In Jesus Name let it be so. Amen